This site is dedicated to our Mom, Ruth. She was diagnosed with a very rare form of terminal cancer called Mesothelioma in August of 2008. She passed away peacefully on October 5th, 2009.

She is the incredible mother of 10 children and has 32 grandchildren. Through her example and love we have become a family with very strong ties. Her faith and love of the Lord shine through in all that she does. She is a light to everyone who knows her.

Please feel free to send your thoughts, feelings, or stories to heidi.wilson@cox.net or kbennion@cox.net and we will post them here for you as a memorial to Mom.

My Family - November 2008

My Family - November 2008
I have a family here on earth; they are so dear to me. I want to spend my life with them through all eternity!

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Wedding Bells and MORE Tender Mercies

My beautiful daughter Jennie was married on Monday, January 19th to Wesley Reese. It has been an ordeal for her. She had originally planned to be married in Cancun, Mexico in May but when I received the diagnosis of cancer in August, she had to scramble to change all of her plans because we didn't know at that time what my prognosis would be but it was important to her that her family be there with her. Fortunately she was able to get all of her money back from the resort in Cancun, and then began the frantic work to pull of a wedding in January. I'll be forever grateful that she (and many others of the family) were willing to put in all the extra effort so that I could participate in the wedding. It was so beautiful and Jennie blessed me with the honor of walking her down the asile and giving her to Wes.
(Me giving Jennie away)
As she walked down the stairs to meet me I was reminded how the Lord had tenderly placed her in my arms as an infant to care for and I now had the privilege of giving her life to Wes to protect and love her. The reception was such a fun event that it will long be remembered by the whole family.

(some of my grandkids having a good time at the reception)

I was feeling wonderful except for some superficial vein phlebitis in both legs which was pretty painful. The day before the wedding was the rehearsal and I was pretty miserable, but once again the Lord blessed me to be pain free the day of the wedding. He also blessed me with the energy to keep up with the preparations and bridal shower all within a few short days. He is truly a worker of miracles and bear witness again of His tender mercies.

There was another tender mercy - during the hub-bub of visitors to the house, my cat Cody got outside and disappeared. He's a wonderful companion for those horizontal days when I don't feel so well, and company for those days when I'm alone until Chuck gets home from work. I felt pretty badly, but once again the Lord came to my rescue and through the fasting and prayers of my sister Darlene - and the prayers of my family, he showed up again at the back door four days later. Another miracle!! I feel so unworthy of the Lord's goodness to me!!

A picture of me and Cody

Thursday, January 1, 2009

ANSWERED PRAYERS (Addendum)

To my dear friends and family:

Words cannot express my gratitude tonight as I write this note. Test results today showed that there has been no spread whatsoever of the cancer. While the tumors did not diminish they remain confined (in their original size) to the pleural space of my left lung. For this type of aggressive cancer not to have spread is truly nothing short of a miracle!! When I saw the first oncologist in the hospital back in August, they gave me six months to a year to live. I have all ready made it through five months and between treatments I feel great. I thank you with all my heart for this wonderful blessing given to me through the tender mercies of the Lord, the power of priesthood blessings, and because of your faith and prayers in my behalf. I treasure each moment I am able to spend with my supportive, loving family and the incredible friends that the Lord has blessed me with! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!!

We now go back to chemo treatments every three weeks - beginning tomorrow. There will be three more treatments and then another PET scan. I would be so grateful for your continued faith and prayers - I know the Lord hears and answers them!